24th October - WHAT A DAY!!!!

My good god up above. What a weird and wonderful day I have had! So i got up and went on date number one which I had already pre-organised prior to writing this blog. The date was with a girl called Elisha who I met in a stripclub. She was one of the strippers and I managed to get her real name, phone number and arranged to meet her today for a coffee in town. I know alot of men are going to be thinking - how did I do this at this point so in the interests of caring and sharing there is one Tip here...I think I'm going to start embedding tips in my posts so its easy to digest for everyone....OK so Stripper Tip: Simply, be the exception.
In order to attract women who strip, you need to firstly, imagine what its like to be them and think about how men interact with them. If you or me were a stripper then our opinion of men would be low because we dance for them. Night after night drunken men on stag parties / lads nights out would stagger in and throw their money at us for us to take our clothes off. What YOU have to do if you want to attract these types of women is do the OPPOSITE of what men in this situation would normally do. I got Elishas number by quickly building up Rapport with her and just being a normal guy. When she asked if I wanted a dance, I said NO. hen she said she wanted a drink, I said that i hoped she had enough money to buy her own (because she will be use to men buying her drinks) I then negged her (look up neg on Wikipedia) and demonstrated that I was a high value male and this led to me getting her number and meeting her for a coffee. (More on High Value Male later....very important but I'm too tired to go into it right now)
So, we went for a coffee and we chatted about HER. Tip One: Always talk about her
You don't give information away freely about yourself until she asks you because you are a high value male. You don't need to impress any woman, she needs to impress you. This really is a state of mind, but an easy way to start being high value is keeping everything about her until she makes the effort to ask about you. Imagine what its like being her, if shes telling a story imagine how she is feeling and wherever possible make her laugh.
We went on from our coffee into a bar and she bought us drinks. Again, she needs to pull her weight with me. She kept on jabbing me when I poked fun at her and by the end of the date I was hand in hand with her, walking her to her stripclub and she gave me a kiss before she went. Not bad for the first day in my social experiment, we arranged to meet up in the future. I then went back home and checked my online dating profiles and found I had a message....ooooo.....interesting. The message was from a girl called Steph. I emailed her back and she replied pretty much straight away. She was bloschy and very direct with her questions so i could tell that she thought alot of herself. I responded by being just as direct to her questions. Her questions were like: Where would you most like to go in the world? What do you do for a living? Where do you go out? She was eager, so I suggested that we meet up now so we can discuss these questions. After a ten minute MSN conversation - she suggested that we MSNed - I was heading out to meet her - very random. I joked with her and told her to wear a tight top and short skirt so Id know who she was - and she did. Only a high value male would act like this. Its screaming that she needs to justify herself to me and not the other way around. So we met in a pub....this leads me on to a very very very important next tip. Tip Two: Lead Whether its which venue you are going to, what time you meet, where you are going to sit - you LEAD. You don't ask for her permission or approval you just lead and do it. Women love this because it shows your sure of yourself and confident. I love this because its so simple and doesn't take any effort at all. I answered all of her quick fire questions calmly, slowly and confidently. This is important because whenever a girl is asking you questions like this she is challenging you. She is testing to see if you are good enough and can handle her. if you let nothing phase you and answer calmly and confidently and even better...slowly...you scream confidence without appearing arrogant or cocky. You will always pass the test. I find that men worry about what they say - care less about the content and focus on how you put it across because it will work wonders. After a really nice night and good conversation, she drove us back to hers and we bedroom hockeyed. (I am going to find adventurous ways to describe sex in this blog I think) I liked Steph, she was confident, pretty and a 34C. She also showed me messages from other men she had received from her dating website and it inspired me to really continue with this blog, because some of these men had absolutely no clue on how to handle or interact with women. one guy had put "I think I can fulfil the vacancy" - its not a job interview, its a date. that is one of the worst messages i have ever read. I encouraged her to go out on more dates but not expect too much because she had already had the best one!! Cheeky, confident humour - always goes down well. So, my first day of my social experiment. Two dates and some bedroom Violin playing. Not bad at all. The one thing I learnt today is that its important to be yourself and be completely at ease in your environment. Whether thats a coffee shop, bar or someone elses bedroom. If you act completely comfortable in your surroundings you are at your most attractive.....more tomorrow guys.