26th October - 3 NUMBERS AND WALL HUMPING IN ONE NIGHT

As I write this it is Tuesday and I am feeling rough after what was a fantastic night last night. Before we get into that I made a cold approach today - I was quite proud of myself. I call a "cold approach" and approach which is not part of any social situation. It is literally you walking up to a girl and starting a conversation where no socialness exists. Its very difficult and can feel awkward because of everything we have been taught about being sociable. We are taught not to talk to people and to view people who talk to us as "weird and lonely" - a sad world really at times isn't it? I didn't number close on my cold approach but I did have some lemon biscuits that she had with her and we had a laugh for ten minutes. The best way to cold approach is a situational opener. Tip: Just ask her opinion on anything in the environment you're in and if you can make a joke about it then do. You then move onto her and ask why shes here, guess where shes going, make an assumption about her personality based on how she looks and once you've done that shes interested and all of a sudden its a social situation and you get offered lemon biscuits. In this interaction she also dropped in that she had a boyfriend which is why I didn't go for the number close - hey - some girls are just off limits based upon where they are up to in their life and we just have to accept that! On to the night out now.........
Bar Number one I noticed two attractive girls - they passed my "man-scale" sitting on a table that was meant for four people so me and my friend sat next to them and continued our conversation and cauht up with each other, when he went to the bar and the ladies were continuing their conversation I joined in - this is very easy to do because they are already on a certain topic. They were talking about their jobs and how they don't like them. I started with "You look like fashion designer" because I knew this would intrique them because its a bold statement to make, most men would join conversations with a pick-up line or ask them a question. Tip: Join conversations by making statements about them. She asked me why I thought that, I said i could tell by her clothes that she had an individual style and I could imagine her making unique kooky clothes. Thats the hard part over, I'm now part of their conversation and they want my opinion. As a general rule, whenever a woman asks you a question about yourself it means that she is interested in you. Guys miss this. You should feel more confident everytime that she asks you a question because she is showing interest every step of the way. My friend got back to the table and I introduced him, this mwant I got their names without asking for it and it felt natural. The girl I was interested in was called Holly so I told stories whenever she asked me a question, made them laugh and poked fun at myself, the bar and my friend. Women love a guy who can make them laugh and I got her phone number. So it was a successful bar number one.
In bar number two I spotted two girls sat outside and I invited myself over to their table. Again, women love men who are confident so 9 times out of ten they will WANT you there if you go over with confidence. We sat there with them for about half an hour and I got another phone number. I didn't really feel connected to this one though and he called me cocky and said I was full of myself (I was a bit drunk and on a high at this point) but still gave me her phone number. This has led me to believe that when a woman calls you cocky and full of yourself it means that she finds you attractive!! Interesting food for thought.
We walked along the main street and spotted two girls sat outside a bar. I started an interaction with them based on how they looked and their body language. Dynamite this if its done well and then we sat with them and I asked one of the girls to go to the bar and get me and my friend a drink and she did. This shows the power of leading and what women will do when you are high value and confident. This is when I met Sarah. She was a pretty Jamaican girl who was 30 and passed my man scale. I made her laugh, my friend paired off with her friend and she invited me back to hers for a spot of giraffe preening...tee hee hee....When I woke up, we had breakfast and I had to go to work. She said she had never done this before and I believed her. She was sweet and a really good laugh so I think I'll see her again. What I learned today was that attraction is a STATE OF MIND. If you feel completely attractive then you will be to just about everyone. More when I have a next date. Please comment / ask questions and I'll answer....