25th October - SUNDAY BLOODY SUNDAY!!

Today I was absolutely cream crackered, knackered, very tired, sleepy because of last night - but I already had a date organised with a nice barmaid called Lisa who was 21 and from what I can remember, very pretty, so I pulled myself together but I don't think I performed amazingly well on the date because of my sleep deprivation!! She was lovely - a shy girl with a big, hidden personality. You have to be careful how you proceed with shy women because if you ask too many questions they view this as prying. What I do is ask them something about themselves and when they give me a bit of information about them I link it to a previous experience that I have had. I tend to go on a bit but they feel much more comfortable with that and I let them do the question leading and prying into my life. We went to two bars and we agreed to see each other again. Barmaid Tip: Barmaids, like strippers get hit on by men all the time so you need to stand out in order to get a barmaids phone number. You need to think completely outside the box here. How I got Lisas number was I accused her of poisoning the drinks, asked her if she had ever poisoned anyone before and complained that there was loads of dirty glasses at the bar and this was a health and safety issue and asked where I could raise a complaint, then asked her for her phone number so I could take her out and teach her the basics of health and safety and customer service. I did this is a fun, jokey manner and it worked. So with barmaids, be creative - you can get there phone numbers, you just need to be the exception again. he admitted to me on our date that she had never been accused of posioning drinks before and this made her laugh. I gave her a kiss on the cheek as I walked her to her bus and I was happy with that after last night. I didn't learn anything much today apart from the bits explained in the book THE GAME seem to work much better on younger women than they do on women my age. Tomorrow I am out with a mate and have no dates organised! Its make my own fate out there.........see how it goes.